Sixty days is a long time. If you're here, you've been through birthdays or weekends or bad nights you weren't sure you'd get through, and you got through them without contacting your ex.
For many people, two months is when good days start to outnumber bad ones. Thoughts of them still come, but they pass more quickly, and they're less likely to take over an evening.
Questions that start to come up
Around now, people often start asking bigger questions. Should I date again? Can we ever be friends? Do I need closure? There's no right timeline for any of them.
On dating, it's worth checking your motive. If you want to meet someone new because you're curious and ready, that's a good sign. If it's mainly to prove something to your ex or to fill the silence, it might be worth waiting a bit longer.
On friendship, many people find it only works once neither person is hoping for more. That rarely happens at two months. It's fine to leave the question open.
Closure usually comes from you
A lot of people wait for one conversation that will finally make it make sense. That conversation rarely delivers. More often, closure is something you put together yourself, from time, from understanding what went wrong and from writing it out. A long letter you never send can do more than a short chat that reopens everything.
Keep some of the old supports
It's easy to drop the habits that got you here once things feel steady. Keep a couple of them for a while longer, like your reasons list or the friend you check in with. They're useful if a bad week shows up out of nowhere.
When a bad day still shows up
Even at two months, a rough day can arrive without warning. It doesn't mean you're back at the start. Use the same tools that worked in week one, writing it down and talking to a friend, and expect it to pass faster than it used to.
Read back
If you have notes or unsent messages from the first week, read a few. Then write something to the person you were on day one. Most people find they have something kind to say.